{"id":82,"date":"2020-01-27T00:02:48","date_gmt":"2020-01-27T00:02:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/204.48.22.247\/?page_id=82"},"modified":"2020-01-27T15:04:24","modified_gmt":"2020-01-27T15:04:24","slug":"emotional-abuse-checklist","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/cultedchild.net\/?page_id=82","title":{"rendered":"EMOTIONAL ABUSE CHECKLIST"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/List.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-217\" width=\"480\" height=\"640\" srcset=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/List.jpg 480w, \/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/List-225x300.jpg 225w, \/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/List-158x210.jpg 158w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 480px) 100vw, 480px\" \/><figcaption>CULT LEADER TACTICS\/BEHAVIORS &#8211; FOLLOWER SYMPTOMOLOGY<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>Signs of Emotional Abuse, By Maria Bogdanos, [1] <sup id=\"footnote_plugin_tooltip_1\" class=\"footnote_plugin_tooltip_text\" onclick=\"footnote_moveToAnchor('footnote_plugin_reference_1');\">[1]<\/sup><span class=\"footnote_tooltip\" id=\"footnote_plugin_tooltip_text_1\">See Website for descriptions of each sign<\/span><script type=\"text\/javascript\">\tjQuery(\"#footnote_plugin_tooltip_1\").tooltip({\t\ttip: \"#footnote_plugin_tooltip_text_1\",\t\ttipClass: \"footnote_tooltip\",\t\teffect: \"fade\",\t\tfadeOutSpeed: 100,\t\tpredelay: 400,\t\tposition: \"top right\",\t\trelative: true,\t\toffset: [10, 10]\t});<\/script><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><br>5 questions to see if you are abusing or being abused:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol><li>\uf06f Humiliation, degradation, discounting, negating. judging, criticizing<\/li><li>\uf06f Domination, control, and shame<\/li><li>\uf06f Accusing and blaming, trivial and unreasonable demands or expectations, denies own shortcomings<\/li><li>\uf06f Emotional distancing and the \u201csilent treatment,\u201d isolation, emotional abandonment or neglect<\/li><li>\uf06f Codependence and enmeshment<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>\u200b<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>[1] PsychCentral, Signs of Emotional Abuse, By Maria Bogdanos,&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/psychcentral.com\/blog\/signs-of-emotional-abuse\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">https:\/\/psychcentral.com\/blog\/signs-of-emotional-abuse\/<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u200b<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>42 Domestic Violence Warning Signs [2]<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>\u200b<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A. Signs of Physical Abuse:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol><li>\uf06f Hitting, punching, kicking, shoving, choking or slapping you<\/li><li>\uf06f Using weapons to inflict harm or threaten you<\/li><li>\uf06f Controlling what you eat or when you sleep<\/li><li>\uf06f Forcing you to do work against your will<\/li><li>\uf06f Forcing you to use drugs or alcohol<\/li><li>\uf06f Stopping you from seeking medical treatment or calling the police<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>\u200b<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp; B. Signs of Emotional Abuse:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol><li>\uf06f Attacking your sense of self worth<\/li><li>\uf06f Insulting you, calling you names, criticizing you, humiliating you<\/li><li>\uf06f Acting jealous or possessive, accusing you of being with other partners<\/li><li>\uf06f Withholding affection or acknowledgement in order to punish you<\/li><li>\uf06f Cheating on you intentionally<\/li><li>\uf06f Lying to you<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>\u200b<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp; C. Signs of Psychological Abuse<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol><li>\uf06f Threatening to hurt you, your loved ones, your pets, your children, or your possessions<\/li><li>\uf06f Controlling the time you spend with others, or monitoring where you go<\/li><li>\uf06f Controlling what you wear, often with the accusation that you attract too much attention<\/li><li>\uf06f Damaging or stealing your belongings<\/li><li>\uf06f Blaming you for the abuse, saying that you deserve what happens or that you instigated the problem<\/li><li>\uf06f Gaslighting, i.e. saying things to make you question your perception of reality, such as \u201cThat never happened, you never remember correctly,\u201d or \u201cDon\u2019t get angry over such little things, you\u2019re too sensitive.\u201d<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>\u200b<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp; D. Continuation of 42 Domestic Violence Warning Signs also include (See website for full description):<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>Signs of Sexual Abuse &amp; Coercion<\/li><li>Signs of Reproductive Coercion<\/li><li>Signs of Financial Abuse<\/li><li>Signs of Digital Abuse<\/li><li>Signs of Stalking<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>[2] Signs of Emotional Abuse, 42 Domestic Violence Warning Signs, October 2016,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>LiveYourDream.org,&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/yourdream.liveyourdream.org\/2016\/10\/42-domestic-violence-warning-signs\/?utm_term=&amp;utm_campaign=DSA&amp;utm_source=adwords&amp;utm_medium=ppc&amp;hsa_acc=3468286777&amp;hsa_cam=1028813436&amp;hsa_mt=b&amp;hsa_net=adwords&amp;hsa_src=g&amp;hsa_ver=3&amp;hsa_ad=243315305228&amp;hsa_tgt=dsa-393349388571&amp;hsa_grp=54252895567&amp;hsa_kw=&amp;gclid=Cj0KCQiAt_PuBRDcARIsAMNlBdo9EyydDpbIQ5APIKL5VmNq7cNMKj9pHtRnA6p7dYu29O2ALtE1_zQaAmxsEALw_wcB,\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">https:\/\/yourdream.liveyourdream.org\/2016\/10\/42-domestic-violence-warning-signs\/?utm_term=&amp;utm_campaign=DSA&amp;utm_source=adwords&amp;utm_medium=ppc&amp;hsa_acc=3468286777&amp;hsa_cam=1028813436&amp;hsa_mt=b&amp;hsa_net=adwords&amp;hsa_src=g&amp;hsa_ver=3&amp;hsa_ad=243315305228&amp;hsa_tgt=dsa-393349388571&amp;hsa_grp=54252895567&amp;hsa_kw=&amp;gclid=Cj0KCQiAt_PuBRDcARIsAMNlBdo9EyydDpbIQ5APIKL5VmNq7cNMKj9pHtRnA6p7dYu29O2ALtE1_zQaAmxsEALw_wcB,<\/a>&nbsp;LiveYourDream.org,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>1709 Spruce Street, Philadelphia, PA 19103-6103,&nbsp;<a href=\"mailto:info@liveyourdream.org\">info@liveyourdream.org<\/a>, 215-893-9000<\/p>\n<div class=\"footnote_container_prepare\">\t<p><span onclick=\"footnote_expand_reference_container();\">References<\/span><span style=\"display: none;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;[ <a id=\"footnote_reference_container_collapse_button\" style=\"cursor:pointer;\" onclick=\"footnote_expand_collapse_reference_container();\">+<\/a> ]<\/span><\/p><\/div><div id=\"footnote_references_container\" style=\"\">\t<table class=\"footnote-reference-container\">\t\t<tbody>\t\t<tr>\t<td class=\"footnote_plugin_index\"><span id=\"footnote_plugin_reference_1\">1.<\/span><\/td>\t<td class=\"footnote_plugin_link\"><span onclick=\"footnote_moveToAnchor('footnote_plugin_tooltip_1');\">&#8593;<\/span><\/td>\t<td class=\"footnote_plugin_text\">See Website for descriptions of each sign<\/td><\/tr>\t\t<\/tbody>\t<\/table><\/div><script type=\"text\/javascript\">\tfunction footnote_expand_reference_container() {\t\tjQuery(\"#footnote_references_container\").show(); 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