{"id":508,"date":"2020-07-04T16:35:12","date_gmt":"2020-07-04T16:35:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/cultedchild.com\/?page_id=508"},"modified":"2020-07-04T16:35:12","modified_gmt":"2020-07-04T16:35:12","slug":"julie-l-hall","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/cultedchild.net\/?page_id=508","title":{"rendered":"Julie L. Hall"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h1><em>The Narcissist in Your Life: Recognizing the Patterns and Learning to Break Free<\/em><\/h1>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-wordpress wp-block-embed is-type-wp-embed is-provider-julie-l-hall\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"rgkHURA4iu\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.julialhall.com\/the-narcissistic-family\/\">The Narcissist in Your Life<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe class=\"wp-embedded-content\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" style=\"position: absolute; clip: rect(1px, 1px, 1px, 1px);\" title=\"&#8220;The Narcissist in Your Life&#8221; &#8212; Julie L Hall\" src=\"https:\/\/www.julialhall.com\/the-narcissistic-family\/embed\/#?secret=rgkHURA4iu\" data-secret=\"rgkHURA4iu\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\"><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption><a href=\"https:\/\/www.hachettebookgroup.com\/titles\/julie-l-hall\/the-narcissist-in-your-life\/9780738285788\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">https:\/\/www.hachettebookgroup.com\/titles\/julie-l-hall\/the-narcissist-in-your-life\/9780738285788\/<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-wordpress wp-block-embed is-type-wp-embed is-provider-julie-l-hall\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"o6emaaDcDQ\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.julialhall.com\/books\/\">Books<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe class=\"wp-embedded-content\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" style=\"position: absolute; clip: rect(1px, 1px, 1px, 1px);\" title=\"&#8220;Books&#8221; &#8212; Julie L Hall\" src=\"https:\/\/www.julialhall.com\/books\/embed\/#?secret=o6emaaDcDQ\" data-secret=\"o6emaaDcDQ\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\"><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption><a href=\"https:\/\/www.julialhall.com\/books\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">https:\/\/www.julialhall.com\/books\/<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Julie L. Hall<\/strong>&nbsp;is a freelance journalist, educational writer, poet, and author whose work has appeared in&nbsp;<em>Psychology Today<\/em>,&nbsp;<em>The Seattle Times<\/em>, Reuters, HuffPost,&nbsp;<em>The Nation<\/em>,&nbsp;<em>Chicago Sun-Times<\/em>, Psych Central,and numerous other publications and news outlets. Her book&nbsp;<em>The Narcissist in Your Life: Recognizing the Patterns and Learning to Break Free&nbsp;<\/em>evolved from her work as founder of The Narcissist Family Files, a leading international resource for narcissistic abuse trauma understanding and recovery. Julie\u2019s research for the book included hundreds of in-depth interviews with survivors of narcissistic trauma, as well as practitioners who work in the field of narcissistic personality disorder and related CPTSD. She coaches clients around the world in narcissistic abuse trauma recovery, drawing from her experience and expertise as a survivor, journalist, and author. She lives in Washington with her family and extended pack of rescued dogs, cats, and chickens.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-wordpress wp-block-embed is-type-wp-embed is-provider-hachette-book-group\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"SGsg5tQXCV\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.hachettebookgroup.com\/contributor\/julie-l-hall\/\">Julie L. Hall<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe class=\"wp-embedded-content\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" style=\"position: absolute; clip: rect(1px, 1px, 1px, 1px);\" title=\"&#8220;Julie L. Hall&#8221; &#8212; Hachette Book Group\" src=\"https:\/\/www.hachettebookgroup.com\/contributor\/julie-l-hall\/embed\/#?secret=SGsg5tQXCV\" data-secret=\"SGsg5tQXCV\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\"><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption><a href=\"https:\/\/www.hachettebookgroup.com\/contributor\/julie-l-hall\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">https:\/\/www.hachettebookgroup.com\/contributor\/julie-l-hall\/<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Listen to Julie being interviewed about narcissism on&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/theaddictedmind.com\/episode-90-the-narcissist-in-your-life-recognizing-the-patterns-and-learning-to-break-free-with-julie-hall\/\">The Addicted Mind Podcast<\/a>&nbsp;and&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/narcissistapocalypse.com\/2020\/02\/06\/the-role-of-scapegoats-with-julie-l-hall-episode-1\/\">Narcissist Apocalypse Podcast<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Julie L. Hall is the author of&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/narcissistfamilyfiles.com\/books\/\">The Narcissist in Your Life: Recognizing the Patterns and Learning to Break Free<\/a>&nbsp;from Hachette Books.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Need support? Julie offers specialized narcissistic abuse recovery&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/narcissistfamilyfiles.com\/narcissistic-abuse-recovery-coaching\/\">coaching<\/a>&nbsp;to clients around the world.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4><strong>Related Articles by Julie L. Hall<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<ul><li><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissistfamilyfiles.com\/2020\/03\/15\/12-unspoken-rules-of-engagement-in-the-narcissistic-family\/\">12 Unspoken Rules of Engagement in the Narcissistic Family<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissistfamilyfiles.com\/2020\/01\/05\/heres-why-your-narcissistic-mother-hates-your-body\/\">Your Narcissistic Mother Hates Your Body, and Here\u2019s Why<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissistfamilyfiles.com\/2020\/03\/09\/are-you-being-bullied-by-narcissistic-monologuing\/\">Are You Being Bullied by Narcissistic Monologuing?<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissistfamilyfiles.com\/2017\/04\/19\/stripping-down-to-the-true-narcissist-7-definitive-traits\/\">Decoding the True Narcissist: 7 Definitive Traits Explained<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissistfamilyfiles.com\/2017\/09\/26\/big-sissies-how-and-why-narcissists-get-worse-with-age\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Big Sissies: How and Why Narcissists Get Worse with Age<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissistfamilyfiles.com\/2017\/01\/29\/narcissist-parents-are-hurt-machines-to-their-children\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Narcissist Parents Are Hurt Machines to Their Children<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissistfamilyfiles.com\/2017\/02\/04\/what-the-narcissist-fears-most\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">What the Narcissist Fears Most<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissistfamilyfiles.com\/2017\/03\/04\/understanding-narcissistic-rage-and-why-it-is-not-your-fault\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Understanding Narcissistic Rage and Why It Is Not Your Fault<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissistfamilyfiles.com\/2017\/02\/07\/the-dos-and-donts-of-coparenting-with-a-narcissist-ex\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">The Dos and Don\u2019ts of CoParenting with a Narcissist Ex<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissistfamilyfiles.com\/2017\/12\/18\/why-narcissists-will-never-love-you-and-its-dangerous-to-love-them\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Why Narcissists Will Never Love You and It\u2019s Dangerous to Love Them<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissistfamilyfiles.com\/2017\/01\/22\/horrid-and-shocking-things-narcissists-say-and-do\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Horrid and Shocking Things Narcissists Say and Do<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissistfamilyfiles.com\/2017\/01\/18\/overt-versus-covert-narcissist-suck\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">The Overt Versus Covert Narcissist: Both Suck<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissistfamilyfiles.com\/2017\/03\/26\/7-things-a-narcissist-will-never-do\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Seven Things Narcissists Will Never Do<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissistfamilyfiles.com\/2018\/09\/10\/enabling-the-narcissist-how-and-why-it-happens\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Enabling the Narcissist: How and Why It Happens<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissistfamilyfiles.com\/2017\/02\/27\/seven-sure-fire-ways-to-spot-a-narcissist\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Seven Sure-Fire Ways to Spot a Narcissist<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissistfamilyfiles.com\/2019\/01\/30\/maddening-and-bizarre-things-about-narcissists-explained\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Maddening and Bizarre Things Narcissists Do Explained<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissistfamilyfiles.com\/2017\/03\/15\/behind-the-narcissist-mask-the-bully-coward-liar-and-fraud\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Behind the Narcissist Mask: The Bully, Coward, Liar and Fraud<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissistfamilyfiles.com\/2017\/03\/01\/why-you-should-not-feel-sorry-for-the-narcissist\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Why You Should Not Feel Sorry for the Narcissist<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissistfamilyfiles.com\/2017\/03\/02\/adult-children-of-narcissists-face-trauma-induced-health-risks\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Adult Children of Narcissists Face Trauma-Induced Health Risks<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissistfamilyfiles.com\/2017\/04\/15\/raised-by-a-narcissist-11-healing-things-to-do-for-yourself-right-now\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Raised by a Narcissist? 11 Healing Things to Do for Yourself Right Now<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissistfamilyfiles.com\/2016\/05\/23\/the-terrible-dilemma-of-the-golden-child-in-the-narcissistic-family\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">The Burden of the Golden Child in the Narcissistic Family<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissistfamilyfiles.com\/2017\/09\/19\/narcissism-101-a-glossary-of-terms-for-understanding-the-madness\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Narcissism 101: A Glossary of Terms for Understanding the Madness<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissistfamilyfiles.com\/2018\/06\/04\/the-narcissism-disease-cluster-why-some-families-are-plagued-and-how-to-end-the-cycle\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">The Narcissism Disease Cluster in Families and How to End the Cycle<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissistfamilyfiles.com\/2016\/04\/22\/raised-by-narcissists-why-you-cant-afford-the-wrong-therapist\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Raised by Narcissists? Why You Can\u2019t Afford the Wrong Therapist<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissistfamilyfiles.com\/2017\/03\/27\/its-you-and-me-baby-narcissist-head-games\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">It\u2019s You and Me Baby: Narcissistic Head Games<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissistfamilyfiles.com\/2019\/09\/02\/identifying-the-covert-narcissist-in-your-life-a-checklist\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Identifying the Covert Narcissist in Your Life: A Checklist<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissistfamilyfiles.com\/2017\/02\/24\/the-strength-of-the-scapegoat-in-the-narcissist-familystrength-narcissist-family-scapegoat\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">The Strength of the Narcissistic Family Scapegoat<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissistfamilyfiles.com\/2017\/03\/14\/how-to-protect-your-children-from-your-narcissist-spouse\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">How to Protect Your Children from Your Narcissist Spouse<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissistfamilyfiles.com\/2017\/03\/29\/9-best-of-the-worst-narcissist-mothers-on-screen\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">9 Best of the Worst Narcissist Mothers on Screen<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissistfamilyfiles.com\/2017\/11\/17\/the-narcissists-disrespect-envy-and-contempt\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Understanding the Narcissist\u2019s Disrespect, Envy, and Contempt<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissistfamilyfiles.com\/2019\/10\/21\/healing-a-sense-of-foreshortened-future-in-adult-children-of-narcissists\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Healing a Sense of Foreshortened Future in Adult Children of Narcissists<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissistfamilyfiles.com\/2017\/10\/24\/narcissists-caretakers-caught-hook-line-sinker\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">The Narcissist\u2019s Caretakers: Caught Hook, Line, and Sinker<\/a><\/li><\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The Narcissist in Your Life: Recognizing the Patterns and Learning to Break Free Julie L. 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